Janet – she taught me that there is no hit so hard from which I cannot get up.

I’m trapped in my head tonight. It literally won’t shut up. So I decided to post something about my mom. This is the eulogy I wrote and spoke at her memorial service. I still tear up when I read it. But she deserves to live on in whatever way I can make that happen. IContinue reading “Janet – she taught me that there is no hit so hard from which I cannot get up.”

Loving Yourself – Part 1

It seems like this title is instructing you to give yourself a hug. Or perhaps to do something morally unmentionable in a general audience. Relax, I’m not pinging on either of those. When I talk about loving yourself, I talk about knowing yourself and protecting yourself. Caring for yourself. But this isn’t supposed to comeContinue reading “Loving Yourself – Part 1”

The Concept of Narcissism and Devaluation

“Abashed the devil stood and felt how awful goodness is..and saw Virtue in her shape how lovely: and pined his loss. ” -Milton from Paradise Lost I wanted to write something lighter this evening. As you may have guessed, I’ve already accepted failure. John Milton was not prone to writing light extemporania. And if that’sContinue reading “The Concept of Narcissism and Devaluation”